Dream Journal
January 27, 1997
Earlier in the night, I had a dream where I was traveling all about, and I came across a girl who loved me. She was cute, petite, kinda like Jen, and we were hanging out. She casually asked if I wanted to make love later and I thought “Yeah, that’d be really nice.”
After this was a dream of Chrissie and me, as we were in the prime of our relationship. We had just met up again. She asked me if I wanted to make love later and I thought “Yeah”, but then I remembered I had a different girlfriend, but couldn’t remember who. I thought it was Erin (my 6th grade girlfriend for a day) and found it difficult to tell Chrissie but finally did. But “Erin” was referring to Rebecca (I thought they seemed similar in this realm). It was all just purely the good feelings of all these relationships. A wonderful place to be.
Which Girlfriend?: The original scene was with someone I didn’t know, though she reminded me of Jen. Apparently it was so nice that I later re-ran the memory (rote) of it, and in the memory the unknown girl was mapped to Chrissie.
Identities cross a lot in dreams. Jen, Chrissie, Erin, and Rebecca were all girls I had relationships with.
Pursuing Intimacy: My favorite activity in dreams again is my most fulfilling activity in real life — the pursuit of love and intimacy!